From a friend on FB -
My two cents worth: When someone disappoints us - we get angry, resentful or hate them for what 'they have done to us...'
I
just listened to a talk by Matt Kahn... about the energies of
September.
One of the things he touched upon was the energy of
disappointment and how whenever we feel disappointment, it's the
Universe handing us back our power. I thought it was really good, so
here is some of it:
The Theme of Disappointment... is a means of freeing
you from your limiting beliefs, ideas, projections and assumptions.
Shatter illusions of definitions... live as if this moment is your last
again and again and again. Disappointment is life's way of handing you
back your power when you unknowingly gave your power away to someone in
your life. We give away our power simply by defining people with a
certain role...as "here's who they are in my life." And if they do
anything outside of that "role," we're immediately disappointed as if they are acting out of character.
In reality,
that feeling of disappointment is Life handing you back the power that
you didn't know you gave away. On an unconscious level, we give our
power away, saying, "You're the one I've decided is going to Love and
Fulfill me. You're the One who's going to make my 'cruel' life
seem justifiable. You're going to make it all better." And when that
person can't do for you what only you can do and love and accept in
yourself, the disappointment is like handing you back your power. No
one else can do for you what you are here to do for yourself, Love
yourself... Love in you what no one else is here or designed to do.
And
even if people try to do that for you, it's a beautiful thing, but often
we find it's at the expense of them Loving themselves so we find
relationships where we've both given our power to each other and no one
knows what to do with it. And you can't love and fulfill another until
you've learned how to do that for yourself and you don't make someone
else responsible for that role, that definition in your life.
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