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Ramblings about life . . .

What I share about my life is simply to help reinforce the understanding that it is possible to live with love and laughter, in between the tough times.

Life is what we make of it, no matter how harrowing. We accept and embody this with-in ourselves, thereby allowing the energy to manifest outwardly in our reality.

It starts with each one of us as an individual to form the collective consciousness.

Be the dream.

We honour the light and the life within you.

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Sunday, 9 September 2012

The energy of disappointment

From a friend on FB -
My two cents worth: When someone disappoints us - we get angry, resentful or hate them for what 'they have done to us...'

I just listened to a talk by Matt Kahn... about the energies of September. 
One of the things he touched upon was the energy of disappointment and how whenever we feel disappointment, it's the Universe handing us back our power. I thought it was really good, so here is some of it: 
The Theme of Disappointment... is a means of freeing you from your limiting beliefs, ideas, projections and assumptions. Shatter illusions of definitions... live as if this moment is your last again and again and again. Disappointment is life's way of handing you back your power when you unknowingly gave your power away to someone in your life. We give away our power simply by defining people with a certain role...as "here's who they are in my life." And if they do anything outside of that "role," we're immediately disappointed as if they are acting out of character.
In reality, that feeling of disappointment is Life handing you back the power that you didn't know you gave away. On an unconscious level, we give our power away, saying, "You're the one I've decided is going to Love and Fulfill me. You're the One who's going to make my 'cruel' life seem justifiable. You're going to make it all better." And when that person can't do for you what only you can do and love and accept in yourself, the disappointment is like handing you back your power. No one else can do for you what you are here to do for yourself, Love yourself... Love in you what no one else is here or designed to do.

And even if people try to do that for you, it's a beautiful thing, but often we find it's at the expense of them Loving themselves so we find relationships where we've both given our power to each other and no one knows what to do with it. And you can't love and fulfill another until you've learned how to do that for yourself and you don't make someone else responsible for that role, that definition in your life.

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