Laying the foundation of relationships

I must say that one thing has been puzzling me for a while about the commitment made by hubby and me in September. I hope I can communicate this puzzle well. Today I seem to have found some rather vague clarity about this puzzle whilst writing the previous blog...

The sexual aspect of our relationship seems to have taken a back seat…well mostly it has :-). I’m not sure why. Is it to do with how we are changing our relationship with each other and so the sexual energy changes?

Our energy interactions are different too. And yet all of this points toward friendship more than sexual partners. Which, as you might understand, sorta puzzles me because this is not where I expected to go. Not sure if I have explained this very well.

We are still sexually active in a different way as the emphasis has been more on friendship, trust and love rather than sex.

From my vague understanding we, the collective, are laying the basis of our relationships with one another within a community. And I don’t only mean the relationship between hubby and I – I am talking about everyone. The unity consciousness in 5D is and will be based on friendship, trust and love. The strong foundation or building blocks of the future.

It doesn’t matter what kind of relationship we have whether as a couple, friend, family or work colleague - friendship, trust and love will always be the foundation. But first we need to find this friendship, trust and love within ourselves – which means clearing, clearing and more clearing right down to the core.

Hubby and I - we’ve always been friends, but also lovers, parents, etc. But this friendship is different. It is deeper - more concrete and yet more fluid. This state has been emphasised since the day we had the engagement. Our relationship is such that we love, trust and support each other no matter what and therefore we have the space within which to experience different states of being. We seem to be spending less time focusing on our relationship and rather focusing on us as the individuals which make up the relationship. Maybe that is the way it should be, as the relationship itself is an entity that needs to develop on its own without us interfering.

As hubby said this weekend, ‘We’ve often veered off track…but we always come back to where we should be once we've experienced what we need to.’

If only I could remember what it is to have a fully committed partnership of two beings…but I don’t. We are simply feeling our way and moving along a path that seems right at the moment. We can only see immediately in front of us where our feet land with each step…everything else is obscured. Somehow this is morphing into a new way of relating to each other. It is simply trusting that all is perfectly as it is meant to be.

Oxford dictionary’s definition of friendship – a state of mutual trust and support. 

I'm gonna add LOVE to that mix.

What could be a better a basis upon which to create a community?

P.S After a nice long soaking bath I have come to understand that a hospital is a community - a network made up of caring individuals. A hospital should be a place of healing and love rather than of pain and suffering. How many of us hate hospitals and what they represent or have had bad experiences or felt powerless?
The way forward is to have these as place of healing and light, so that individuals can realise their potential, take back their power and become responsible for themselves. It is a place where health professionals can guide and through kindness and caring assist individuals to get back on their feet and move forward in health and wellbeing.

As the B52’s say - ‘Everybody’s moving, everybody’s grooving...’