Our universe

I’ve always known each one of us is our own universe…kinda like a universe within a universe within a universe, etc.

I’d known it but it had been an intellectual knowledge rather than an understanding that both my mind and body understood. Once the body understands, it becomes part of us and our whole perspective changes. It’s almost as though a door is opened and we step through and become what we were standing on the outside looking in through the window at.

This is what has happened to me since the stargates opened on my body. A full realisation and understanding that I am a universe in my own right, and like a universe has galaxies, stargates, portals and wormholes…so do we.

I am now beginning to fully understand why the body is so important in this ascension process. It is all very well to have an etheric wispy lightbody that can ascend and move through different dimension. But it is a totally different process to drag a physical body with you. Mastering energy and a state of being whilst trying to make changes within the body to accommodate this, is a very difficult challenge. Half the time we don’t even realise what changes the body is going through, we simply accept that each ache and pain is part of the process. We don’t direct the changes, we merely allow them (mostly).

I’ve often seen people talking about how unimportant the body is because we will shed it eventually. Yes, that may be the case if you transition to the other side, but if you are here to ascend, your physical body is going with you. 


Dismissing sex as a 3D ‘dirty’ thing that those up there in the higher realms don’t indulge in, is narrow minded and typically a 3D perspective. This part of our way of being has been brushed aside because no-one can imagine an Ascended Master doing something quite so base.

 And yet, in its true form, love making is the most beautiful way of affirming our love for one another. 3D has coloured this with so much negativity. How many of us view our body with distaste? Do you like your own smell? Do you even like yourself?

If not, how can anyone else love you?

I am always struck by how society bases beauty on looks. How often have I seen the plainest looking person (according to the media) wearing an aura of beauty around them fascinating us, despite their imperfections. Beauty comes from within. If we love ourselves others will love us.

There is a huge difference between self love and vanity. You can love yourself and still be humble. What glows from inside us is then reflected back at us from society in general.

Many of us look at all kinds of issues but never a sexual one. We never look at the reason we might not want to indulge in touchy feely, why we have pain during intercourse or why we won’t connect deeply with our partner (or ourselves for that matter). Lighted Loving used to stress the need to clear any sexual abuse from our bodies. All traumas are carried over from lifetime to lifetime and settle in each incarnated body that we have and will continue to grow unless we make an effort to clear it.

We don’t have many excuses these days as to why we hang on to our illnesses. Many of us have had contracts…these are over. It is up to us to clear the need for the illness otherwise we will continue on a loop.

What I have come to understand is that the stargates that each of us have all over our body, can only be activated when the resonance of your state of being matches the resonance of the stargates that your body carries. In other words you can stimulate a stargate and have no reaction if you are not vibrating at the same rate as the etheric stargate you are actively working on. But…and this is a big but…every part of you must resonate at the same level, i.e. mind body and spirit – all unified in one, and this includes your partner.

Much the same as any inner earth portals are not open to us, unless we happen to stumble across an opening and at that specific time and place are vibrating in resonance with that opening. Pretty much like finding the right key to unlock the door.

Once activated the stargate will continue to spiral energy in and out, linking you to your expanded self in all dimensional aspects. This is part of your multi-dimensional beingness. It is pretty much like the Merkaba around your body. These days we don’t have to keep at the Merkaba meditation, simply because many of us are at the stage where our Merkabas are permanently on. We have reached a state of resonance that supports this.

This is where clearing yourself comes in. If your sexual energy is vibrating very low and very dense, it does not support a stargate activation...or love.

But this will change as we add to the new sexual matrix that is being built. Many will start tapping into it and be making the subtle changes needed without realising. It is an honour for me to take part in this.

Hehe…I discussed this with hubby. He rolled his eyes and merely said, ‘I have no idea what you’re talking about’. So basically, if he can do it, everyone can.


Merry Christmas and peaceful blessings to all. I am retreating to my palace of pleasure for a while.