In discussion with friends the other day, the subject of relationships came up. The question I was asked was - how did I manage the changes every relationship goes through and still have a good relationship with my hubby?
I wasn't really sure how to answer it. I do it organically. As I go along I tweak things, always using the world around me as a gauge to see what needs working on within me. I make mistakes and through my mistakes I learn - well, mostly I learn. Sometimes I gotta hit my head several times before I figure it out!
So I merely said that whenever I make an effort, my hubby reflects this back at me.
One woman nodded. "Yes," she said, "I have noticed that too. But I keep wondering why I always have to make the effort."
Hmm...if everything is me talking to me, wouldn't I want to make the effort - for me?
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