Ramblings about life . . .
What I share about my life is simply to help reinforce the understanding that it is possible to live with love and laughter, in between the tough times.
Life is what we make of it, no matter how harrowing. We accept and embody this with-in ourselves, thereby allowing the energy to manifest outwardly in our reality.
It starts with each one of us as an individual to form the collective consciousness.
Be the dream.
We honour the light and the life within you.
Please be aware - I upload other bloggers' posts and then delete after a month. This is my journey and others help me understand where I am, until they become irrelevant (a few posts excepted).
Wednesday, 22 January 2014
Making an effort
In discussion with friends the other day, the subject of relationships came up. The question I was asked was - how did I manage the changes every relationship goes through and still have a good relationship with my hubby?
I wasn't really sure how to answer it. I do it organically. As I go along I tweak things, always using the world around me as a gauge to see what needs working on within me. I make mistakes and through my mistakes I learn - well, mostly I learn. Sometimes I gotta hit my head several times before I figure it out!
So I merely said that whenever I make an effort, my hubby reflects this back at me.
One woman nodded. "Yes," she said, "I have noticed that too. But I keep wondering why I always have to make the effort."
Hmm...if everything is me talking to me, wouldn't I want to make the effort - for me?